Thursday, April 29, 2010

Jean-Michel Basquiat - The Radiant Child

I have been fascinated by Jean-Michel Basquiat every since I saw the fairly unknown (at the time) Jeffrey Wright portray him on film. I am a huge fan of both of them now.



With all that said, I can't wait to see the full documentary directed by Tamra Davis! This is just a couple snippets/trailers. Enjoy! Art's Immortal Rock Star!!! Shout out to my good friend Fab Five Freddie who is also in the documentary.



Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Every Woman Should By Maya Angelou

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to....
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a youth she's content to leave behind....
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .......

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..

a feeling of control over her destiny...
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship....

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW....

when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .

whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Drake - Over

Exactly how I feel right now :)







Recession Discoveries



We've all heard the word "recession" at least a million times in the last few years. It has been tough for many including myself. Money slowed up drastically. People lost their job and homes. Majority of us had to change our lifestyle to fit the times. It got so bad that white people saw a black man as some sort of Saviour to this country, Obama. None of us saw that coming and I still think I am dreaming sometimes when I realize we have a black President.

I have discovered so many things about myself and others in these low economic times. I was one of those people who was living far above my means. I needed everything designer, (although I have always went to sample sales as well) then I realized the clothes and things didn't make me, I made them. I can put on a $10 shirt instead of a $100 one and you wouldn't know because of the way I carry myself. I take care of "myself" more. Meaning, instead of getting those pedicures, manicures and waxes weekly, I get them monthly and maintain it myself. I polish my own nails! Wow! Who knew? I hadn't polished my own nails in 10 years and I love to do it :) I wax my own self! No way! I actually use coupons when grocery shopping and catch sales! Incredible! Before, I would just frivolously buy what ever I wanted, whenever I wanted. I have saved thousands on just these items alone. So now that money is flowing normally again for me, I am a new person, more grateful. More smart. Knowing the difference between need and want. Don't get me wrong, If I see something expensive I just "can't live without", I'll buy it. But that is rare.

One thing I have learned from one my super rich friends, not a thousandaire lol but a billionaire, is home and travel is everything. You wouldn't even know he has money if it wasn't for his houses in Malibu and Brentwood. He drives an old beat up 1992 Range Rover. lol But he drives it to his mansion. He could have any car he chooses! You would never know he was filthy rich if you saw him. He is very frugal and I admire that. Why spend a lot of money on stupid stuff when you can use it to travel the world vacationing when time permits? I'm turned off by men who walk around with diamonds like Liberace. It's a clown suit for chicken heads. All a man needs is a nice watch and be clean cut.

Also what I have learned is who my real friends are. Hard times show peoples true colors. Being my friend when it's popular to be, is so predictable. But when the shit hits the fan, who really has your back? Not those tag along, plus 1's, coat tail riding, fair weather, users, bullshyters, so called BFF's that claimed ya'll were ride or die. They expose themselves and quickly. Family too. On to the next person they can benefit from they go! They are like rats trying to get cheese. I thank the recession for revealing who those people were in my life. Now I have a clean slate with nothing but people whom have my best interest because they have shown me, when I had nothing to offer them but my friendship, that they love me. You can only see that when the smoke clears. It separated the real from the fake and I thank God for it. Never judge by actions, but by intentions.

So I see the recession as a BLESSING. I was forced to come up with new solutions versus waiting to get booked for a job. I'm not a good waiter. I would be waiting tables if I liked to wait. I have always had a leader, entrepreneur spirit. With that said, I have taken what I have learned over the years, and a applied it with some great resources/like-minds and 2010 will be the best year of my life! Hopefully you too will see the true benefits of this so-called recession and take the bull by it's horns.

ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVE.










Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Death At A Funeral Premiere





The movie was funny with a very talented, star studded cast. I had a blast at the premiere catching up with people I hadn't seen in a while and networking with execs at the after party. It was freezing last night so I opted to cover the legs for a little comfort. I've already gotten bad press about the high boots and long dress but what do they know lol! Overall a great night with so many stars in attendance like Martin Lawrence, Eddie Murphy, Tracy Morgan, Zoe Saldana, Angell Conwell, Regina Hall, Chris Rock, Marlon Wayans, Columbus Short and Ciara to name a few.  My business partner and friend Ann Flagella came as well.